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ninth octave	how to be intimate	Lead	[-]
Posts: 2056 (06/11/09 16:58:32) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Tags : None Being intimate might mean allowing yourself to tap inside to the deepest reservoir of your being so to begin to share this unknown place inside of you to another being. There might also be places inside of us that we never thought to exist.There are varying degrees of intimacy and with each new response a feeling may trigger another undiscovered level of being in the relationship. It is risky and delicate but well worth its endeavor. Both being a conduit to help each other receive and bestow the increasing flow of tenderness and openness and to chisel away at the fears or doubts of the being and the relationship. Can we share how we could remain receptive conduits when we know our nakedness is being exposed by our vulnerability.
Jonalith Enexseenge		#1	[-]
Posts: 1642 (06/11/09 19:41:51) Administration Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I had a thought... No one will know you better then your self no matter how much you wish it to be true. We come from where we are, and the more we understand where we are coming from and what we are bringing the better... Ninth i really appreciate your words because they allow me to challenge the metaphor you bring and see more clear in my self. You metaphor of chiseling away... To create a shape, an end result, a master piece. What i have to acknowledge is not the piece of art and form created, for that is what is constantly pressed upon me while i live in this world, but it is the end of it all. What is the difference between a relationship ended with death vs one ended via life? All posts submitted by Kyle Milliken © copyright. 2005
Jos3ph		#2	[-]
Posts: 169 (06/12/09 22:05:49) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I have been telling stories to my son at bedtime. They are stories of my childhood, of pets and adventures and happenings. He absolutely loves it (as do I when I someone will open up about those happenings in their life). But I was thinking... How could he possibly relate to the actual event from my past? Their are so many details that I couldn't convey and so many nuances that I cannot grasp or tell rationally. But my stories unlock something within him. My friend was telling me stories of his past today. How could I possibly even come close to having an accurate perception of events from his past? Yet I enjoy the stories. I enjoy the images and feelings they conjure up within me. "Can we share how we could remain receptive conduits when we know our nakedness is being exposed by our vulnerability." I think it's when we want something more than the defence of the self. When the desire to love, to live, to do what we are here meant to do is more powerful than ... that other stuff ... then we remain receptive.
ninth octave		#3	[-]
Posts: 2071 (06/18/09 18:33:17) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I was hoping to get some dialogue on how to get intimate with each other instead of dancing around an imprint. Like getting to the marrow of each other How do discovery the joy and mystery that last beyond the sex.
lucky		#4	[-]
Posts: 580 (06/18/09 19:02:43) Administration Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	It's possible to be intimate in the most casual of relationships when one is comfortable with oneself. It has nothing to do with sex or gender. You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. Christopher Robin to Pooh (AA Milne)
Jonalith Enexseenge		#5	[-]
Posts: 1670 (06/20/09 09:28:07) Administration Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	but does being intimate have to do with have sex? beyond how to be intimate is how fucking confused so many god damn people are about the difference between intimacy and sexual intimacy. It is as if any hint of intimacy is a sexual invitation. A real short end to a long trip. All posts submitted by Kyle Milliken © copyright. 2005
lucky		#6	[-]
Posts: 591 (06/20/09 13:06:28) Administration Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	"but does being intimate have to do with have sex?" No. Intimacy and sex are entirely separate; except when two people who are intimate decide to have sex together, lol. Its the same with affection - separate from sex, except when someone doesn't know their self well enough to tell them apart. Sexualization, ie confusion of needfulness with sexual desire, is indeed a big problem. Most people are pretty confused about a lot of things. You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. Christopher Robin to Pooh (AA Milne)
bit shiny		#7	[-]
Posts: 691 (06/20/09 18:03:42) Moderator Guardian Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	describing sensations , channeling different vibrational experiences into language, different levels of intensity , sustained intensity not being robbed through devaluing action, selective filtering into desirable states , and what shall be held , and what shall be released. What view shall be maintained when it finds its place of fill finds me wanting to go back again and again. If I try to hold it it will spill, but if it flows freely it will fill again and again.
Jonalith Enexseenge		#8	[-]
Posts: 1725 (07/01/09 15:04:27) Administration Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	All posts submitted by Kyle Milliken © copyright. 2005
two lizards		#9	[-]
Posts: 938 (07/01/09 19:01:06) Administration Three Pronged Nagual Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts
bit shiny		#10	[-]
Posts: 732 (08/07/09 01:14:15) Moderator Guardian Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I found the perception of searching for love to be nutritious, more so than searching for sex, or sexual energy , innocence in looking for love stores love energy, or maybe connects with love energy, and when there is no expectation or falsity then the connection with another is honest and builds and does not take away or seek to corrupt, the wave which is felt is much more delightful, and the focus shifts to look for more than just sex, I know it is still hunting something in a way but it is giving something to another and inviting them to acknowledge it in themselves and find it for themselves and then realise and seek it too,

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